After a tiring work day returning home, you shake yourself because you want to spend some quality time with your family and your child, and as you enter your child's room, the frustrating picture is received day by day:

Your child is pressing buttons on the computer or the game console deeply without paying attention to the outside world.

You try to affect, with nice words, punishment (mostly unsuccessful), or if so he looks up from behind the monitor, there will usually be a quarrel. Then you're blaming yourself because you've got the latest game that your kid wanted because you have no idea what he needs (you just wanted to get him a little joy), you're blaming society, modern education, social media, game developers and God knows who else as well. You do not understand your child because you did not grow up in this world, but you feel that your 

relationship is getting faded ...

Sounds familiar?

If you yes, then you are not alone with this issue in today's world. Many of my clients, as successful in the business as they want to be, fear that they cannot recover the broken relationship with their child.

I have good news!

It's possible! It's great if you can spend quality time together with your family because there is something in common with hobbies: fishing, baking etc ... etc. ... But you have to understand that computer games are just as much part of your child's life as anything else. To make a deeper relationship with him is not enough to just give money to games, you have to understand them. If you want I can help you in that.

One of my mission as a coach to build a bridge between you and your child, and in the coming weeks, I will only post this kind of blog posts to help you in this matter. Indeed! We are going to dive into this world that is not so well known to you, with the goal of improving your relationships! With me as your guide, a coach who understands the dynamic of the world your children are playing in. 

Of course, I'm not all knowing

Using an analogy, if you are sick you go to a doctor if you want to get the clarity you speak to a coach. Although I play also myself and I know this world far less than Krisztián Burján, my friend who I asked to help me out in this issue. First of all, let's help clarify the basic concepts.

Here are the first few vital acronyms to understand :

RPG

The role-playing game (RPG) is a board game, in which players form a verbal way of thinking about a commonly imagined world of fantasy, where the play of the game resembles a lot of the work of a jointly invented book or movie.

Online role games are already running through on the computer under one or more moderators.

RTS

Real-time strategy game (abbreviated as RTS) is a genre of video games. These games are played on the map displayed by the computer, the players are usually in a small building at a point that is more or less randomly chosen at this map.

In the average case, the main tasks are to collect resources on the gaming map, and to build the bases - buildings or other unit manufacturing facilities (spacecraft, eg), to propagate and develop technologies and to create units (workers, fighters, vehicles, etc.). The goal is for players or their teams to conquer one another or to overcome the computer, or to perform tasks that require different strategic tasks. The most common goal is to capture hostile bases, but this also depends on the history and genre of the game background.

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Even if it was too much for the first time trust me when I say, it's just the tip of the iceberg, but you need to know if you want to have change, I'm here for you!

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